so my girlfriend had been at her parents' house for the weekend. i called her home phone and her father, who i hate, answers. quick profile on daddy: football player in college, goes to church every sunday, cheats on his wife a lot. but, of course i have to be nice.
me: Hi, is Jennafer there?
fuck, should i have said "May I speak to"? do adults consider that rude?
him (curtly): Yes, hold on please.
me: Sure, no problem